Member verification
We are the only dating platform that confirms who you are, whether you're actually single, and — for men — your financial standing, before you match with anyone.
The average dating app lets anyone create a profile in under 3 minutes. No income check. No background check. No confirmation they're even single. That's why ghosting, catfishing, and dishonesty have become the norm.
Matchmaker AI was built differently. Our founder spent years as a professional matchmaker, where verification wasn't optional — it was the job. We brought that same standard to our platform and backed it with technology that actually confirms what apps only ask you to self-report.
Here is exactly how we verify every member who joins.
Our 4-step verification process
Powered by Plaid
We require all men to connect their bank account through Plaid — the same secure financial data technology used by Venmo, American Express, and thousands of banks worldwide. Plaid gives us a read-only snapshot of your financial standing, which our team reviews manually.
We never see your individual transactions, account details, or spending habits. Our team reviews your financial information privately to confirm you are a financially stable, established professional — and nothing more. Your detailed financial data stays private.
What we confirm
For non-traditional earners — business owners, investors & retirees
Wealth doesn't always show up on a W-2. Business owners, investors, and retirees are welcome — our team reviews every application individually to ensure our community is made up of serious, established adults who are genuinely ready for a committed relationship.
Powered by Veriff
Every member is verified through Veriff, a global leader in identity verification trusted by financial institutions and governments worldwide. Members submit a photo of their government-issued ID and a live selfie — Veriff's AI confirms they match.
This step confirms your real age, your real height, and your real marital status — all pulled directly from your driver's license or passport. No more lying about being 6'1". No more hiding a spouse.
What we confirm
Proprietary compatibility science
Once your identity and income are confirmed, you're guided through a comprehensive compatibility assessment by our AI Matchmaker Jessica — a voice model built on our founder's real voice and personality, powered by Hume AI.
We assess you across every major framework that relationship science has validated: Big 5 personality, MBTI, Enneagram, Love Language, Attachment Style, and Sexual Blueprint. This is the same depth a premium human matchmaker would use.
What we assess
Optional — for deeper compatibility
For members who want the deepest level of compatibility science available, we offer an optional $90 genetic test that goes beyond psychology into biology.
Research shows that humans are unconsciously attracted to partners with optimally different immune profiles — a biological mechanism nature uses to produce healthier offspring and stronger romantic chemistry.
What we screen for
Ghosting is the most common complaint in modern dating. It's also a choice — and we decided it's not one our members are allowed to make. After every date, we follow up with both people to collect feedback. If someone goes silent, we act.
This isn't just a rule. It's how we build a community of people who actually respect each other's time.
Your AI Matchmaker personally follows up with you after every date. We want to know how it went and also deliver feedback.
Members are expected to share post-date feedback. This improves your future matches and keeps our community accountable to one another.
If a member repeatedly ghosts without feedback or communication, they are removed. No warnings. No exceptions. Your time matters.
How we compare
| Verification feature | Matchmaker AI | Dating apps | Traditional matchmaking |
|---|---|---|---|
| Financial standing verified (not self-reported) | ✓ | ✗ | ✗ |
| Financial stability manually reviewed (men) | ✓ | ✗ | Some |
| Government ID verification | ✓ | Rarely | Some |
| Marital status confirmed from ID | ✓ | ✗ | ✗ |
| Age & height confirmed from ID | ✓ | ✗ | ✗ |
| Criminal background check | ✓ | ✗ | Some |
| Compatibility science assessment | ✓ | Limited | Some |
| No ghosting enforcement policy | ✓ | ✗ | ✗ |
| Genetic compatibility option | ✓ | ✗ | ✗ |
| Price | Fraction of matchmaking | $15–$50/mo | $5k–$100k |
Is my financial data safe when I verify through Plaid?
Yes. Plaid is a read-only connection. We cannot access, move, or store your banking credentials. Our team reviews your financial standing privately — we never see your individual transactions, account details, or spending habits. Plaid is trusted by over 8,000 financial apps and institutions including Venmo and American Express.
How does the financial review work?
Every male member's financial information is reviewed individually by our team. There is no rigid cutoff — we look at the full picture to confirm you are a financially stable, established professional who is genuinely ready for a committed relationship.
I don't have a traditional salary — can I still apply?
Absolutely. Wealth doesn't always show up on a W-2. Business owners, investors, and retirees are welcome — our team reviews every application individually. Book a call with our team if you have questions.
What information does the background check access?
Through our Veriff integration, we confirm your government-issued identity, real age, height, and marital status. We also run a criminal background check. This information is used solely for verification — it is never shared with other members or third parties.
What if I'm separated but not legally divorced?
Matchmaker AI is designed for people who are fully single and legally available. We require that members be legally divorced or never married to join. We take this seriously because our members deserve honesty from day one.
Is the genetic test required?
No. The $90 genetic compatibility test is completely optional. Many members choose to participate for the added layer of biological compatibility science, but it is not a condition of membership or matching.
How is my compatibility data used?
Your personality and compatibility data is used exclusively to find your best matches on the platform. We use your Big 5, Enneagram, Attachment Style, Love Language, and other assessment results to power our predictive analytics model. Your data is never sold or shared with third parties.
Join a community where everyone is verified, serious, and ready for a real relationship.